Your safety comes before the conversation

The 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline provides free, confidential, 24/7 support across the United States and its territories. You do not have to be suicidal to contact 988.

Togethium is only for adults age 18 or older. People younger than 18 may not create an account or participate in a Togethium circle.

• Do not let anyone under 18 use your account or listen to a circle through your device.
• If we learn that an account belongs to someone under 18, we may restrict or remove it.

• Choose a private place where others cannot overhear your circle.
• Use headphones when possible and keep your device physically secure.
• Plan to avoid sharing information that identifies you or another person.
• Check that you can leave the session quickly if you become uncomfortable.
• If you need clinical, medical, legal, or crisis support, contact a qualified provider instead of relying on a peer circle.

• Leave immediately if you feel unsafe, overwhelmed, or pressured.
• Use Skip when continuing a sharing turn feels difficult, triggering, or unsafe.
• Do not confront or investigate a threatening participant yourself.
• Do not follow another participant’s instructions to send money, share credentials, install software, or talk privately. .

Read and follow the Community Rules in our Terms.

Your voice is heard live by the people in your circle. Togethium does not record or transcribe live circle audio, but it cannot guarantee that another participant will follow the no-recording rule.

• Do not share a full name, address, exact workplace, school, or personally identifiable information.
• Do not share passwords, verification codes, financial details, or government identifiers.
• Do not share someone else’s private story or identifying details.
• Assume anything spoken could be remembered or improperly captured by another person.

• Provide therapy, diagnosis, treatment, or professional advice.
• Monitor circles or guarantee that rules will be followed.
• Verify participant’s identity, history, qualifications, or statements.
• Locate you or dispatch emergency responders.
• Guarantee confidentiality, a particular match, or a positive outcome.
• Respond to support email as quickly as emergency or crisis services.